How To Stop Your Girlfriend From Misusing Your Finances!!!
Errm, i have seen how most Nigerians guys complain about how their ladies love money and so on but the truth is everyone is craving for a better life and future. If not, why do some guys also say they can't marry an uneducated lady or an unemployed lady?
Anyways, here are some things i feel guys can do to limit the way some ladies prey on them.
1. Its simple be honest with her.
If your budget can't handle going out, tell her. If you can't afford the expensive dresses, bags and so on, tell her. She is going to respect your willpower and how responsible you are with money. If she balks, she is not the girl for you.
2. Be honest with yourself.
Truth is, some guys like to brag, show off and what's not...you clearly know you can't afford some things she requests for but you decide to play along. The more you prove you can afford those things, the more requests she brings.
3. Save for get aways and trips.
You don't just plan trips and expensive shopping overnight, you save for them...it makes spending a lot easier and fun.
4. Save for presents also.
If you explain things to her properly, i'm sure she'll understand if she means well for you and if not, what will be will be.
5. Tell her you can't withdraw from your account because of BVN
Anyways, here are some things i feel guys can do to limit the way some ladies prey on them.
1. Its simple be honest with her.
If your budget can't handle going out, tell her. If you can't afford the expensive dresses, bags and so on, tell her. She is going to respect your willpower and how responsible you are with money. If she balks, she is not the girl for you.
2. Be honest with yourself.
Truth is, some guys like to brag, show off and what's not...you clearly know you can't afford some things she requests for but you decide to play along. The more you prove you can afford those things, the more requests she brings.
3. Save for get aways and trips.
You don't just plan trips and expensive shopping overnight, you save for them...it makes spending a lot easier and fun.
4. Save for presents also.
If you explain things to her properly, i'm sure she'll understand if she means well for you and if not, what will be will be.
5. Tell her you can't withdraw from your account because of BVN
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